Parents are the first and most powerful filter of how the
child receives and comprehends the world. Today research
has proved that a child begins to respond from the womb.
It carries all the feelings, emotions and experiences of
the mother while still a foetus. Those memories have IMPACT
on the child and its responses to the world. This fact alone
should make us aware of the fine intelligence that a child
carries. However so much of our behaviour damages a young
child because we constantly ignore its ability to absorb
the experiences around it. THIS IS THE BIGGEST MYTH WHICH
DAMAGES YOUR CHILD IN WAYS YOU CANNOT IMAGINE.
Parenting
is a skill, an art. Most parents are completely unaware
of this and so we have teenage mothers, children being abandoned
at birth, alcoholics and drug users becoming parents, violent
adults raising children and divorced couples using children
to settle scores. And we are surprised that there is so
much chaos and violence in the world. In fact it is not
abortion which is immoral and cruel, since the mother by
having an abortion at least states her incapacity to raise
that child. The worst immorality and cruelty is the rampant
irresponsible and vicious parenting in the modern world.
You
are living in a world where child sexual abuse is affecting
one in three children, irrespective of country, class or
education. Paedophilia is at a record high and the internet
has finally become a statement on how popular child pornography
is in this world. Priests, doctors, police, are all being
identified as major consumers of child porn. Our world is
not a safe or happy place for children. Also because at
the root of all angry and violent adults, alcoholics and
paedophiles, was a disturbed childhood. Without healing
their pain and trauma not only are they destroying other
children but are also becoming parents.
The
cycle must end. You can make a beginning with your child.Only
a healthy, wholesome, loving child will distribute love
and light to this world. He/she will create beauty through
every act and word and will make a mark in this world ridden
with grief and violence. He/she will also grow into an excellent
parent and set up a new cycle of hope and joy. That will
be your lineage, your awesome legacy to this world.
