Feeling good about sex and sexuality is a direct result of feeling safe in a sexual space.
Both partners in a sexual relationship are responsible for ensuring safety.

If you are thinking of having a sexual relationship with someone, ask yourself -

• Do I respect this person?
• Does this person respect me and my sexual likes and dislikes?
• Do we trust each other?
• Do we talk and listen to each other?
• Do we share interests other than sex?
• Can I discuss and choose measures to ensure safe sex (preventing pregnancy and/or diseases)?

If your answer to any of these questions is NO, chances are that this is not a suitable person for you to have a sexual relationship with.

Take the time to decide whether you want to be sexually involved with someone you can't talk to, someone who doesn't respect your needs or wishes.

Saying NO can be a positive expression. you always have the choice.