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  Menstruation  
 
Every healthy girl in the world has a period. Your period is your body's way of preparing for a pregnancy. A lining, made up of blood and tissue, is built up inside the uterus to nourish a fertilized egg. If there is no pregnancy, the lining is shed and blood comes out of the vagina. This is a period. It's a sign of growing up. Another part of growing up means taking care of your body when you have your period to make yourself feel comfortable and protected while menstruating.
 
 
Understanding your menstrual cycle is important before you can understand some forms of contraception like the pill, or pregnancy. Women usually have a 28-day cycle (see below) but also remember that every woman's cycle is unique and different.
 
 
Girls start menstruating or get their 'periods' between the age of 10 - 16 years, however, the age and time varies from one person to the other - some may start earlier and others later depending on the hormonal changes in the body. The egg released from the ovary travels through the fallopian tube to the uterus. One egg is released every month. If the egg meets the sperm in the fallopian tube, the egg can be fertilized and if the fertilized egg moves to the uterus, a baby can be formed.
 
 
The uterus anticipates that the egg will be fertilized and grow into a baby. So in preparation, it grows a sponge-like layer of tissue and blood cells, called endometrium, which is meant to provide safety, warmth and nourishment to the baby for the nine months of pregnancy. If the egg is not fertilized, the endometrium breaks down and flows out through your vaginal opening in the form of bleeding. At times you may also notice clots of blood flowing out. Over the entire period, your body throws out a half a cup of fluid and the body quickly replaces the amount of blood lost. The unfertilized egg also leaves your body along with the menstrual flow. This takes place for about 5 days every month, however number of days may again vary from one girl to the other. The average is about 3-7days. The average period comes every 28 days. But some menstrual cycles can take as little as 21 days, or as much as 35 days.
 
  what happens  
 
understanding your menstrual cycle
 
 
Day 1-7: Day 1 is the first day of your period, and when the levels of main female hormones (progesterone and estrogen) in your body start dropping. Dropping hormone levels signals the uterus to shed its nutrient rich lining (called the endometrium) that had been built up in anticipation of nurturing a fertilised embryo. The shedding of the lining and bleeding is the menstrual flow or period.
 
 
Day 8-15: Your period is over by now. The ovaries produce large amounts of estrogen that signals the uterus to thicken its lining to receive the egg. Increased estrogen levels triggers off another hormone called LH (lutenizing hormone), which tells the ovaries to release an egg. This process is called ovulation and occurs around the 14th day around after your period begins. This could be associated with mild abdominal pains.
 
 
Days 15-21: Progesterone kicks in to prepare the nutrient-rich lining of the uterus to receive the egg. If fertilised the egg will implant itself in this lining around day 21 of the cycle.
 
 
Day 22 to 28: If the egg is not implanted there is a drop in the hormone level which eventually triggers off menstruation. The decline in hormones contributes to PMS.
 
  Protection during periods  
 
To protect yourself during periods, you can use sanitary napkins/pads that are belted or beltless, or tampons.
 
 
Belted napkins are to be tied around the waist and the beltless napkins can be stuck firmly to the panty. The instructions are clearly given on the sanitary napkin package.
 
 
Tampons are cylindrical in shape and expand to soak up moisture and blood. The tampon is inserted inside the vagina, about a finger length deep. A tampon or sanitary napkin should be changed every 4-5 hours, otherwise it could lead to infections and diseases. If the flow is very heavy, you may need to change every 2 hours. It is always a good idea to carry two napkins or tampons with you always, especially around the time you are expecting your periods.
 
 
To dispose off a used pad, fold it over and wrap it in toilet paper, newspaper, or tissue and place it in a wastebasket, and never throw the used pad unwrapped in the wastebasket as it can cause infections and bad odor. Never flush the pad as it can block up the plumbing. That could be very embarrassing!
 
  cramps during menstruation  
 
Some girls experience discomfort and pain during periods, called 'period pains' or 'menstrual cramps'. The most common complain is cramping in the lower abdomen and back. Sometimes that pain is like a constant dull ache, or a feeling of heaviness. You may also feel pain in your lower back and thighs. Cramps are caused by contractions in the uterus and these may start up to a day before the periods, and usually stop after the first day of your periods, however it may continue even after the first day for some girls.
 
 

For relief from cramps, you may find the following helpful:

  • Painkiller: If the cramps are unbearable, you can take a painkiller like aspirin or paracetamol or ponstan. Talk to your parent or doctor before taking any of these medicines
  • Hot water bottle: Place a hot-water bottle on your abdomen or lower back as this may relax the cramping
  • Exercise: Take a long walk or go swimming. Deep breathing exercises are good also very helpful, especially if you deep breathe or take your breath down to your genital area or the area that is paining - lower back or abdomen.
  • Warm Bath: Take a warm bath as it will ease and relax your body.
  • A healthy diet and regular exercise are very effective in keeping cramps at bay
 
 
However if you find the cramps really unbearable and if the cramps bring nausea or blackouts, make sure you check with an adult like your mother, elder sister, teacher, counselor or a doctor before you take any kind of medication.
 
  Myths about Menstruation  
 
Some girls do not bathe or wash their hair during periods and some people believe that you should not go to the temple or eat pickle and curd while menstruating because they feel that girls are not pure during these 5 days. People also feel that the blood that flows out of the body is the impure. Now you know that it is not true as menstruation is a biological process and is essential for reproduction. If a woman does not menstruate, she will not be able to bear children and child bearing and rearing is considered sacred in our society. How can something that enables a sacred process be impure at the same time?!
 
  Planning for your periods  
 

 


 
   
 

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